Just something I learnt lately and after watching Grey's Anatomy...and i'm not being EMO
So whats the difference between loss, grief and bereavement:
The feeling of loss comes when you have lost something you have placed value in. Exp: Handphone, wallet, etc
and
because of that, an emotion called grief which is a normal and dynamic process which will fill you up in response to the loss
then 
you will go through bereavement which is the period after you experience grief (mourning) where you experience anger, sadness..etc
until
you find something to place value again...you are not really out of it...=)
more on grief>>
According Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross          there are -
5 Stages Of Grief       
Denial and Isolation
            At first, we tend to deny the loss has taken place, and may withdraw             from our usual social contacts. This stage may last a few moments, or             longer.
Anger
          The grieving person may then be furious at the person who inflicted            the hurt (even if she's dead), or at the world, for letting it happen.            He may be angry with himself for letting the event take place, even            if, realistically, nothing could have stopped it.
Bargaining
           Now the grieving person may make bargains with God, asking, "If             I do this, will you take away the loss?"
Depression
           The person feels numb, although anger and sadness may remain underneath.          
Acceptance
           This is when the anger, sadness and mourning have tapered off. The person             simply accepts the reality of the loss.
 



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